Why is it that most people are shy to tell their crushes that they like them? I mean, if you don't tell your crush that you like them, how will you know if they like you? Yeah, there's a guy I like that's my best friend's cousin, and I know he likes me. I would tell him I like him, but, if I did, I'd probably accidently tell him that his cousin told me that he liked me, and she wasn't supposed to tell me, and I don't want him mad at my best friend.
It's like I said, if you never tell your crush that you like him/her, then you'll never know if they like you in return. For example;
Jimmy likes Sarah (I just made those names up off the top of my head) but Jimmy doesn't know if Sarah likes him back. Now, if you'ver read my other posts on this blog, you probably know what's coming up next. Yes, that's right, it's decision making time! Yay!!!
Okay, there are two things that Jimmy can do;
A. Write a note to one of his friends who's also Sarah's friend too, and ask, "Does Sarah like me? Check yes or no". After a while, Jimmy's friend gives him back the note. He opens the note. And that's as far as we're going to go on this answer.
Or, Jimmy could do;
B. Write a letter to Sarah saying "Dear Sarah, I don't know if you knew this, but, I like you, and I don't care if you like me back, but's it just eating me away inside not knowing if you do or not. So, do you? Come by my locker tomarrow morning and tell me. Signed- Jimmy" or something like that. Then, he puts it in her locker. Then the next day, Jimmy's at his locker when Sarah walks up.
The problems and solutions with both answers are big, but, simple to follow. In solution A, Jimmy asks a friend if Sarah likes him. He might find out, but there's a good chance that friend is lying just to mess with him and Sarah. So, maybe Jimmy shouldn't use solution A.
In solution B, Jimmy asks Sarah if she likes him. The only problem with this one is rejection issues. Sarah may not like Jimmy very much, but she has the guts to tell him so. The good thing about this solution is that you're hearing the answer through your crushes mouth. No one else is answering for her.
And another thing, what's with the whole "first kiss" thing? Now, you don't have to agree with me, but here's how I see the whole kitten-kadoodle; two people swapping spit with each other for the first time. That sounds like a lot more effeciant way to say that, rather then, "someone's first time being kissed." Also, what is a first kiss, anyway? I guess it varies from person to person. To me, personally, my first kiss would be the first time I swap spit with a guy. I mean, sure, once I did kiss boy on the lips before... when I was 3! Plus, we were like best friends, and we were like siblings, so every day before our parents would take us home from daycare, we'd kiss eachother good-bye. I mean, yeah, it sounds stupid now that I'm 17 but it made sense 14 ago.
Have I ever swapped spit with a person before? No. And I don't want to any time super soon. Maybe during the middle of the school year, like November through March, that's when my ideal "first kiss" would comply. I feel as though I may be bringing some people down as to their self-confidence. So I'm going to focus on those idividuals next.
This is for anyone who's never had a "first kiss" but wants to kiss the guy/girl of their dreams. If you have already swapped spit for the first time, feel free to go ahead and skip this paragraph if you want, but you can stay and read, too. Now, don't feel bad if you've never been kissed or never kissed someone before. That's why I'm here; to help. So, let me guess; there's a classmate or co-worker of your's that you've been dying to ask out. No? Maybe... You really want to kiss your girl/boyfriend, but you don't know when or how to know if they want to kiss you. Did I get it? If not, comment, and I'll try and answer your question. Now, I don't have enough time or finger stamina to write all the answers down, so I'll give you the website that I'm researching the answers on. So, if you don't know if the person you like wants to kiss you, check out this site, then return here. http://www.kissing-tips.net/how-to-know-if-someone-wants-to-kiss-you.html But, if you really want to ask out a person, check out this website and return back here. http://teenadvice.about.com/cs/lovedating/f/FAQdating1.htm Both of these sites are pretty darn good for answering the questions.
Now, for someone who as ever kissed a person or has ever asked a person out, you know what it's like. But, you really want to ask out someone who's not into you very much. You feel that you would rather die than be without them. How do you ask them out? Well, http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/328616 has the answer. But, maybe that's not the answer your searching for. Maybe, maybe you have a boy/girlfriend that you really want to kiss, but they don't really want to kiss you. How can you get them to want to? Here's the site for guys; http://www.answerbag.com/q_view/328616 and here's the site for girls; http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20071018185257AAvc39g
So, it's okay if you've never been kissed and you're under 18. That just means you haven't met the right guy/gal to swap spit with. Again, I appologize if there are some people I didn't help out. Go ahead and email me and brown.samantha52@yahoo.com and I'll try to answer any questions you may have. Please, no hate or threat mail, because I'm pretty sure the goverment pays close attention to people threatening a 17-year-old girl. :)
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Bullies
For a long time, I have been picked on... a lot. This is my eighth grade year in school, and I just started a couple days ago (September 8th, 2009). Last year was like hell on earth. It was left and right being called a lesbian, and there was nothing I could do!! Finally, I talked to the principal with my mom. We told him what was going on, and at that time, it was this one boy named LJ. He was like the arch nemesis I never wanted. The principal agreed to talk to LJ.
The next day at school, things weren't any better. Once again, LJ was making fun of me. I just like it slide of me like water on a ducks back. A week after I talked to the principal, I was at my locker, getting my insturment for band. LJ comes walking up to me and says "Get out of my way, lesbo!" Of course, I say "Make me," and then, he does the thing that you should never do; he kicked my clarinet five feet! Now, this just plain ol' pissed me off! I pushed him as hard as I could and yelled, not said, yelled, "If my clarinet is broken, or even cracked, I'm going to kick your ass all the way to Timbucktoo! You don't know how expensive it is until you pay for the damages." Then. I walked away. One of my friends stopped me in the hall and said, "Jamie, there's a teacher right there!!" I said, "I don't care."
Ever since that day, no one has dared to touch my clarinet.
Then, I found out that that was LJ's last day of school; he had been expelled.
The point of my story is to tell all people in the blogging world that you have to stick up for yourself! If you don't, the bully of your nightmares may leave your life forever and you'll never tell them to bugger off! It's a wonderful feeling, knowing you got your bully expelled or fired because they were harrassing you. I still wonder where LJ went to, because his siblings still go to my school. Honestly, I want to know where he lives so that one day I can go find him and then kill his sorry butt!! >:)
But seriously, everyone should learn how to stick up to a bully, because you never know when it's their last day.
The next day at school, things weren't any better. Once again, LJ was making fun of me. I just like it slide of me like water on a ducks back. A week after I talked to the principal, I was at my locker, getting my insturment for band. LJ comes walking up to me and says "Get out of my way, lesbo!" Of course, I say "Make me," and then, he does the thing that you should never do; he kicked my clarinet five feet! Now, this just plain ol' pissed me off! I pushed him as hard as I could and yelled, not said, yelled, "If my clarinet is broken, or even cracked, I'm going to kick your ass all the way to Timbucktoo! You don't know how expensive it is until you pay for the damages." Then. I walked away. One of my friends stopped me in the hall and said, "Jamie, there's a teacher right there!!" I said, "I don't care."
Ever since that day, no one has dared to touch my clarinet.
Then, I found out that that was LJ's last day of school; he had been expelled.
The point of my story is to tell all people in the blogging world that you have to stick up for yourself! If you don't, the bully of your nightmares may leave your life forever and you'll never tell them to bugger off! It's a wonderful feeling, knowing you got your bully expelled or fired because they were harrassing you. I still wonder where LJ went to, because his siblings still go to my school. Honestly, I want to know where he lives so that one day I can go find him and then kill his sorry butt!! >:)
But seriously, everyone should learn how to stick up to a bully, because you never know when it's their last day.
Imagination Across the Nation
Why is it that so many people in America say "There is no such thing as magic."? Many Americans today say "Oh, why should there be magic when we have science? There is no such thing!" But, if you think about, science is magic. Without just a pinch of magic, there would be no us. Now, if you're a scientists, than you probably would say, "The Big Bang was the cause of Earth and the rest of the Milky Way," but, the big question is, why did the big bang happen? I mean, sure, there was a volcanic eruption, maybe. But, how did that volcanic eruption happen? Who caused all of the evolution that lead to human beings? Maybe, just maybe, it was magic at work.
Now, I'm not saying that anyone and everyone have to believe in what I believe in, but, just try to see my point. Yes, I would say that I believe in the Big Bang theory. I also believe in creation. God had to have wanted the earth and galaxy to form, so, he smashed a huge rock in space and made other huge rocks in space. Now, personally, I'm one of those "All things happen for a reason," people. Well, it's true! I don't believe in coincidences, but that's fine if you do, because I don't give a crap about how you see things, that's your own belief and I can't change that.
Let's just pretend that there is a person who's not so sure there's such a thing as God, but they want God to be real. One night, they pray, "Dearest Lord, If you're real, then I need you to prove it to me. Tomorrow at work (or at school) have the person I like come and talk to me. Have them ask me out, or something. If you do this for me, I will forever be your humble servant."
So, this person goes to work or school the next day. They're at their locker or cubical, just preparing for the day, when, the person he or she likes comes walking up to them. The person says hi and asks them out. Now, there are two ways this person can go about this; 1. Say yes, but, don't follow his or her promise to be God's humble servant. or 2. Say yes, and, as promised, always believe in God and teach many people of God's love for the world.
But, of course, there are consequences to both answers, good and bad. If the person goes with answer 1, then the up part is they get the man/woman of their dreams. The down part is that they may anger God, who will punish them, maybe even by have their boy/girlfriend break up with them. If they go with answer 2, they get the girl, God's love, and, well, they can pray to God for help, and God will give it to them 9/10 times.
Magic, I think, is another way to prove that there is something wrong with this world. We allow for small children to have imaginary friends, but, we don't let ourselves have imaginary friends. When was the last time you had a conversation with someone other than your friends or family, or even yourself? Yes, I'm talking about the last time you talked to your imaginary friend. We all have one, but most of us don't acknowledge their existence. Why do you think you get so warm in a cold place sometimes? Your imaginary friend is giving you a hug. How do we get freckles overnight? Our imaginary friend kisses us every night on the cheek before bed. Why is it that we get what we want if we keep telling ourselves that we're going to get it? Our imaginary friend helps us out. There's someone watching out for us all the time, but we just have to find them. Some people may say that the imaginary friends I'm talking about are Guardian Angels. Maybe, I haven't seen one. If you have, please comment and tell me, was it an angel, or a human? Either way, their you imaginary friends who are looking out for you.
Do things happen for a reason? You tell me. All I know is that America has to start believing in more magic and less hatred and violence. If we all just learn how to pretend or imagine once in a while, someone may come up with a brilliant idea that will stop the war in Iraq, stop global warming, stop world hunger, stop the homeless people from being homeless, and stop the violence in the world. All we have to do first, is S.Q.U.I.S.H, sit quietly, imagine, share, help, and BOOM! You're imagining!
Now, I'm not saying that anyone and everyone have to believe in what I believe in, but, just try to see my point. Yes, I would say that I believe in the Big Bang theory. I also believe in creation. God had to have wanted the earth and galaxy to form, so, he smashed a huge rock in space and made other huge rocks in space. Now, personally, I'm one of those "All things happen for a reason," people. Well, it's true! I don't believe in coincidences, but that's fine if you do, because I don't give a crap about how you see things, that's your own belief and I can't change that.
Let's just pretend that there is a person who's not so sure there's such a thing as God, but they want God to be real. One night, they pray, "Dearest Lord, If you're real, then I need you to prove it to me. Tomorrow at work (or at school) have the person I like come and talk to me. Have them ask me out, or something. If you do this for me, I will forever be your humble servant."
So, this person goes to work or school the next day. They're at their locker or cubical, just preparing for the day, when, the person he or she likes comes walking up to them. The person says hi and asks them out. Now, there are two ways this person can go about this; 1. Say yes, but, don't follow his or her promise to be God's humble servant. or 2. Say yes, and, as promised, always believe in God and teach many people of God's love for the world.
But, of course, there are consequences to both answers, good and bad. If the person goes with answer 1, then the up part is they get the man/woman of their dreams. The down part is that they may anger God, who will punish them, maybe even by have their boy/girlfriend break up with them. If they go with answer 2, they get the girl, God's love, and, well, they can pray to God for help, and God will give it to them 9/10 times.
Magic, I think, is another way to prove that there is something wrong with this world. We allow for small children to have imaginary friends, but, we don't let ourselves have imaginary friends. When was the last time you had a conversation with someone other than your friends or family, or even yourself? Yes, I'm talking about the last time you talked to your imaginary friend. We all have one, but most of us don't acknowledge their existence. Why do you think you get so warm in a cold place sometimes? Your imaginary friend is giving you a hug. How do we get freckles overnight? Our imaginary friend kisses us every night on the cheek before bed. Why is it that we get what we want if we keep telling ourselves that we're going to get it? Our imaginary friend helps us out. There's someone watching out for us all the time, but we just have to find them. Some people may say that the imaginary friends I'm talking about are Guardian Angels. Maybe, I haven't seen one. If you have, please comment and tell me, was it an angel, or a human? Either way, their you imaginary friends who are looking out for you.
Do things happen for a reason? You tell me. All I know is that America has to start believing in more magic and less hatred and violence. If we all just learn how to pretend or imagine once in a while, someone may come up with a brilliant idea that will stop the war in Iraq, stop global warming, stop world hunger, stop the homeless people from being homeless, and stop the violence in the world. All we have to do first, is S.Q.U.I.S.H, sit quietly, imagine, share, help, and BOOM! You're imagining!
Monday, September 7, 2009
Gandhi
I must say that I admire Gandhi. He was willing to die in order to save his country and people. He didn't eat or drink for so long, and it worked. England moved out of India and his people were free. He proved that peace is a very good way to solve your problems. Think of it this way; if a kid was getting harrassed in school and his parents told him to do something about it, he would probably listen to them, right? So he goes to school the next morning, ready to end this bull crap he's going through. Now, there are two possible ways for this child to do this. A; he could walk up to the person who's bothering him and say "I'm tired of you picking on me all the time, and I'm here to end it!" So, he punches the other kid in the nose. Now, this, even though most Americans won't admitt it, is the most commonly chosen solution. The other solution, B, is this; he could walk up to the person who's been bothering him and say "I'm tired of you picking on me all the time, and I'm going to end it!" So, he walks away without another word. You people in the blogging world may all think, "Well, wtf is with that? He didn't do anythin!" Exactly, he didn't do anything. He's going to let the teachers and the principal take care of that person. But, if this child goes with solution A, he'll most likely get detetion, suspension, or expulsion. So, really, the kid's punishing himself! But, if he goes with solution B, he doesn't get in trouble, other kids who were bullied look up to him and want to be his friend, and he takes care of the problem.
So you see? Ghandi had the right idea! Peace is an excelent solution for most things! I mean, sure, don't look to peace to end a war! Especially if ur in the middle of the war! If you sit and do nothing, you die!!! LOL. Peace is like a bottle of medicance for the cold. You take it, and you start to see some results. If only more of America could look for peace instead of violence, we could have so much better. There wouldn't be so much homeless people living on the streets, and starvation could be solved! These are not dreams, dear bloggers, these can be a reality, if we try.
That is why I come blogging this foggy morning to tell you all; find some love in your heart! If we all learn how to love one another, we can all learn how to solve these national problems.
So you see? Ghandi had the right idea! Peace is an excelent solution for most things! I mean, sure, don't look to peace to end a war! Especially if ur in the middle of the war! If you sit and do nothing, you die!!! LOL. Peace is like a bottle of medicance for the cold. You take it, and you start to see some results. If only more of America could look for peace instead of violence, we could have so much better. There wouldn't be so much homeless people living on the streets, and starvation could be solved! These are not dreams, dear bloggers, these can be a reality, if we try.
That is why I come blogging this foggy morning to tell you all; find some love in your heart! If we all learn how to love one another, we can all learn how to solve these national problems.
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